How to bring more gratitude into your child’s life without them even knowing
Posted: November 27, 2019
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During the month of November we are all reminded through the Thanksgiving holiday about the importance of being grateful. We know it is important, but we continually feel like our children just don’t get it. Here are additional 5 tips that you can integrate to bring more gratitude into your home without your children ever even knowing it.
6. The difference between rights and privileges - As adults, we know the difference better than most children do. A little education in this area can go a long way. It is a right to have clothing to keep your body warm; it is a privilege to have designer outfits. It is a right to be able to communicate; it is a privilege to have the latest smartphone. It is a right as a citizen of this country to have an education; it is a privilege to be able to participate in all of the extra-curricular activities.
7. Start a meal with gratitude - Have each member of the family go around the table and share something they are grateful for. Similar to prayer, it puts mindfulness back into family time and encourages conversations.
8. Give you child everything they need but not everything they want – What does your child need? food, clothing, shelter, education and love. Take the pressure off yourself to keep up with the "Jones'". As long as you are doing your best and giving love, time and thoughtful attention to your children, chances are you are doing a great job.
9. Encourage helping someone without being asked – A sign that your child is really starting to understand, is when they offer help without being asked. With some, getting to this point may take years. Do not let that discourage you from privately pointing out opportunities where your child could be of better help.
10. Interpret news through your eyes – while I am not a fan of watching the news or reading the newspapers, a steady diet of everything that is wrong with the world will surely find its way to your child. When it does, use it as a teachable moment to point out how fortunate your family is to not have to deal with such terrible situations. While drawing comparisons to others that have it worse, make sure to keep the focus on gratitude and not guilt for lacking appreciation.
Incorporate these ten steps into your communication with your child and watch how effortlessly over time your child develops the attitude of gratitude. Happy Thanksgiving!
