Finding a Role Model: Helping Your Child Learn from the Best
Posted: February 02, 2025
Role models are an essential part of life. They help guide us through our development, shape our decision-making, and influence the kind of people we become. Whether it’s a mentor, a teacher, a coach, or even a historical figure, the people we admire serve as blueprints for how we behave and grow.
This month, your child will be exploring the concept of Recruiting a Role Model—learning how to identify a positive influence, choose wisely, and understand why sometimes we need more than one role model. This is a wonderful opportunity to engage as a family and reflect on the role models who have shaped all of us.
Here are some ways you can support your child on this journey:
1. Be Their Role Model
One of the most powerful things we've observed in great families is the impact parents and caregivers have on children simply by being present and leading by example. Kids naturally imitate what they see. When parents exercise, children often become active. When kindness and respect are demonstrated daily, children absorb and reflect those behaviors.
A great approach is to simply be mindful of the way you interact with others. If you're striving to improve an area of your life—whether it’s patience, resilience, or consistency—your child is likely watching and learning from you.
2. Explore Role Models Together
As children grow, they begin to look beyond their immediate family for guidance. This is an exciting stage, as it allows them to see different perspectives, talents, and ways of thinking. A wonderful way to support them is by asking questions that spark curiosity:
- “Who do you admire, and why?”
- “What qualities do you think make a great role model?”
- “Is there someone in our community, a teacher, or a coach that inspires you?”
By encouraging this reflection, you're helping your child build self-awareness and choose role models who align with their personal values and aspirations.
3. Share Stories of Your Own Role Models
Think back to the people who influenced you—teachers, mentors, family members, or even historical figures. What did they teach you? What qualities stood out? Sharing these stories helps children see that learning from others is a lifelong process.
One of the most impactful things we’ve seen in families is the power of storytelling. When kids hear real-life examples of perseverance, kindness, and growth, they begin to understand that role models don’t have to be perfect—they just have to inspire us in a meaningful way.
4. Model the Practice of Seeking Role Models
The truth is, we all need role models, no matter our age. Whether it’s finding a mentor for personal growth, learning from someone in our career, or seeking inspiration for a new hobby, there’s always an opportunity to learn from others.
If your child sees you actively learning, asking for advice, or seeking guidance from others, they’ll understand that this is a lifelong practice. You might say, "I really admire how my friend handles challenges at work—I'm trying to learn from them." By verbalizing your own process, you reinforce the idea that role models aren’t just for kids; they’re valuable at every stage of life.
Final Thought: A Shared Journey
Finding and learning from role models isn’t just a lesson for children—it’s something we all benefit from. This month is a great time to reflect together, explore new influences, and embrace the idea that we are always growing.
We’d love to hear how this experience goes for your family. What role models have shaped your life? What qualities do you and your child admire in others? Let’s continue this journey of character and leadership together!